this reminds me of when i had summer intensives in high school, everyones a little awkward its great.
on friday i was coming back from lunch and took the stairs at my job and some guy in the stairway tried to pull my dress down and he undid my bra. i ran away from him which was crazy enough. but then no one at my job really did anything about it. like the security office and stuff. so then honestly i kind of just got embarrassed.
but then monday the security office calls me in to review the tapes and it turns out the guy didn’t even work there he had followed me into my building!!! I have the worst luck with stalkers.
seeing this dude on tape is one of the most surreal experiences i have ever had. his face was blurred because of the quality and he was following me like i was his prey. made sure he was enough steps behind so that i never held a door open for him and checking to make sure no one followed me before coming into the stairwell. and the whole time i am walking in front of him completely unaware of anything. it was like watching prey getting stalked on the discovery channel but it was me.so then i was walking around for the past couple days thinking about this psycho indian guy hiding in the bushes waiting for me to go into the stairs so he could rape me. which is bizarre let me tell you. then i started having this creepy feeling that the guy was a ghost and following me around, and even in the elevator i was freaked out he was just going to appear out of thin area. seeing him faceless on a security camera didn’t help.
anyway. so a detective called me and told me the guy has been arrested!
unfortunately he was arrested because he assaulted a lady on monday.i feel really guilty about this. i keep wishing i had pulled myself together and found someone to go after him when it happened.
anyway what i’m trying to say is, i didn’t file a police report until i saw the video because some people i know made it seem as if i was overreacting, and i let myself feel to embarrassed by that to do the right thing, but i may have helped this other woman if i had. so if you ever find yourself in a situation like this stick to your guns! people are creepy as fuck. this happened to me in broad daylight. don’t let situations like this slide.where do you work? and eeek so scary
i work in dc as a secretary. its a SUPER safe neighborhood, like a bunch of nerds the National Science Foundation is a block away…
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on friday i was coming back from lunch and took the stairs at my job and some guy in the stairway tried to pull my dress down and he undid my bra. i ran away from him which was crazy enough. but then no one at my job really did anything about it. like the security office and stuff. so then honestly i kind of just got embarrassed.
but then monday the security office calls me in to review the tapes and it turns out the guy didn’t even work there he had followed me into my building!!! I have the worst luck with stalkers.
seeing this dude on tape is one of the most surreal experiences i have ever had. his face was blurred because of the quality and he was following me like i was his prey. made sure he was enough steps behind so that i never held a door open for him and checking to make sure no one followed me before coming into the stairwell. and the whole time i am walking in front of him completely unaware of anything. it was like watching prey getting stalked on the discovery channel but it was me.so then i was walking around for the past couple days thinking about this psycho indian guy hiding in the bushes waiting for me to go into the stairs so he could rape me. which is bizarre let me tell you. then i started having this creepy feeling that the guy was a ghost and following me around, and even in the elevator i was freaked out he was just going to appear out of thin area. seeing him faceless on a security camera didn’t help.
anyway. so a detective called me and told me the guy has been arrested!
unfortunately he was arrested because he assaulted a lady on monday.i feel really guilty about this. i keep wishing i had pulled myself together and found someone to go after him when it happened.
anyway what i’m trying to say is, i didn’t file a police report until i saw the video because some people i know made it seem as if i was overreacting, and i let myself feel to embarrassed by that to do the right thing, but i may have helped this other woman if i had. so if you ever find yourself in a situation like this stick to your guns! people are creepy as fuck. this happened to me in broad daylight. don’t let situations like this slide.This is an important story for you to share. Sorry to read that it happened to you, I’m glad the person was apprehended, and hope that other women will be spared from having to learn that lesson.
thanks! i hope it will make everyone at least a little more alert!
as soon as i wrote that i did some research and found out you were right! and i showed my friend that suggested i do one too, so we are both off of that lol. buuuuut i hate hard decisions, we’ll see what sort of brainstorming i can do….tbc
I need help making decisions. I’m currently on a liquid only herbal detox because supposedly that helps clear your mind. I need a guru though. S County where are you? I have too many decisions to make and very very little time. what to do.Ehh liquid only “detoxes” aren’t that good Sway :\ There are better ways to help clear your mind. All that will do is deplete you of nutrients necessary for your body and mind to work better.
One thing you could do is go on a nice walk and take in everything that’s around you. Do things that are comforting and grounding for you, I think that’ll help with the best decision making… the decisions you would make.
